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It has taken me awhile to decide what to do with the blog. I felt lost not posting pictures of the missionaries and I've felt lost with not having my missionary routine. We are starting to settle into a different routine and I have decided to start blogging again. It will take me a little while to get things squared away but we are rolling into the next phase of our journey in life - recovery from the best experience of our lives ( the mission), knee surgery( Tim's), physical therapy for my back, and the economy with our business. We look forward to continuing our growth spiritually and preparing for what comes next!

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Thursday, October 16, 2008

Our Couples

We are so lucky to have the best couples in our mission! The things they do are amazing!

Elder and Sister Clark are our office couple. We could not survive without them! Sister Clark runs the office. She is in the office 5 days a week from 9am to 5pm and she is busy. Her day does not end there. She volunteers to help with English classes on Tues. and Thurs. evenings. She gives the most interesting stories and facts to the advanced English classes and the students love her! She also attends many institute classes on Wed evening. She comes every Sat. morning with Elder Clark and helps with the maintenance of the church grounds. She has planted her own flower garden and because of her more flowers will bloom in the spring! She and Elder Clark are to every Branch activity, District activity, Baptism, Transfer Day, Zone Conference and anything to do with helping members or missionaries. She brings food to all these events and always has missionaries over for her tasty cooking. She remembers every missionary's Birthday and yet does not put her own on the calendar to be remembered. These are not her duties for working in the office - these are her choice because she has a deep love for the missionaries, the work that they do and for the Savior Jesus Christ and his Church. Elder Clark is right there with her helping her in all they choose to do. He is responsible for the finances, making sure apartments are taken care of, bills are paid, training missionaries on their responsibilities for making sure bills are paid, replacing lost or broken items and the list goes on. They are the back bone of the mission.

Elder and Sister Crittenden are our CES couple and they are up in Kharkov. They also help with the Dneiper Mission too. They train seminary teachers, institute teachers and if there isn't anyone to teach then they teach. They help the institute council plan activities and they participate in each activity. They also help with missionary work as well as helping the missionaries. This is not apart of their assignment but they want to help and we are so grateful. The missionaries in Kharkov have a special treat in having them as a part of their missionary experience. They too have more energy than I would know what to do with. They hold district meetings with the missionaries, help guide them as leaders in the mission and of course feed them. They help with English Classes several times a week and visit Branches in the Kharkov area. They too attend anything to do with the missionaries as well as keeping up on their CES assignments with the other mission as well. They are hands and feet of the mission - always giving a helping hand where needed and running without being weary! We are surely blessed by their great example. They have had many wonderful and rewarding experiences with the youth and with those seeking the gospel. Their testimonies are strong and their love for others and the gospel are very much appreciated.

Our next couple is the heart of the mission - our Humanitarian couple, Elder and Sister Kinghorn. The help they have given to needy organizations and their experiences are the most heartfelt in the mission. They are so many that are in need of help here just as there are all around the world. Their patience with paper work to even start a project is incredible. Their experiences as they have dove into the culture and tried to help and understand a part of the world that has been so persecuted and never taught to help each other because they were not allowed to and yet the people have persevered as well as the Kinghorns. They have seen a sadder side to Ukraine that many of us will not see and yet they have not given up. Their Christ-like love for others is seen in their tear stained faces as they have helped a woman cross the street and she looks up at them with gratitude. Their joy and laughter comes as they continually try to get a smile out of the bus driver when they say "Thank you " as they get off the bus. They too help with the missionaries even though it is not a part of their work - they choose to do so and we are forever grateful. They have district meetings, feed the missionaries and are to every event that involves the missionaries. We are blessed to have them in our mission .

Each one of our couples have left their area better than they found it and has made a difference in the mission, which brings me to our last couple, President and Sister Jacob. They are the eyes and ears of the mission. When they see something that needs to be done - they do it. When they hear something that needs to be done - they do it. There is no hesitation - consider it done. President Jacob is the first councilor in the Mission Presidency. He handles many things that the President cannot get to in places further away places like Kharkov and Sumy. There is 1 district in Kharkov with 7 Branches and he visits them. He also helps a great deal with the Sumy Branch which is a Mission Branch. Sumy is 3 1/2 hours from Kharkov. Sister Jacob is by his side every step of the way. She teaches piano to many of the young and adults and they have successfully progressed to play in church! She also teaches English to adults, children and a spiritual English class as well. Both of them teach Strengthening Marriage and Family class. They help in every branch whenever possible and cook and cook and cook!!They never quit smiling. It is always wonderful to visit them. They too bring a lot of warmth to the mission. They help the missionaries also. They help those that are sick in their area, to train the missionaries in leadership skills and to keep them enthusiastic. They really are the backbone, hands and feet, heart, eyes and ears and the life blood in Kharkov. They truly love the Savior and his work.

We love all of our couples. Each of them has made a difference in the lives of the Ukrainian People as well as the missionaries. The people and the missionaries will always have a special place in their hearts for the couples that have served here. We wish we had more couples. There are so many small branches that could use a couples love. You do not need to know the language. There are many that speak English and the missionaries help interrupt many times. The humanitarian couple is allowed an interrupetor with their program. It is a beautiful country but a struggling country as well. The members are loving and appreciated. Many others are as well once they are exposed to you. We are examples when it comes to showing how to be happy and to feel joy. Many of our couples go home in 2009. Our summers are warm, winters cold and spring and fall - wonderful. The last 2 winters have been mild. In the summer the nights cool off. If you know of anyone - give them the blog address and the Kinghorns also have a blog You are also welcome to contact me at I can tell you how you can be recruited to this mission. We hope to see you!!!


dixiewhitehead said...

From what I know, this mission HAS been incredibly blessed with the best couple missionaries ever, including you two. One could almost wonder if these missionaries are even replaceable because they are so amazing, but I know there are great people who are up to the task of filling their huge shoes. And let's not forget that the Lord blesses us all to magnify our callings. I can't wait to serve in a few years. Thank you Clarks, Crittendens, Kinghorns, Jacobs, and Frys. You are angels.

Anonymous said...

Hello Frys!! We are so glad you have a blog so we can keep up on all the fun you are having! We send our love and hope all is well! It looks like you have some great couples and younger missionaries. We miss you, but are so greatfull that you are helping spread the word of the gospel! Much love!
Sydnee McArthur and family